Milestones

Milestones

First weeklong quiet contemplation. Days of meditation in each wat I walked past. Nights of jazz at the Arkive on Chiang Mai’s North Gate.
— January 2024
Third visit to Elephant Nature Park, this time volunteering with Doug and Molly
— December 2023
Quit WSGR. Began a three month sabbatical funded by Uber selloffs.
— October 2023
Launched GetCoachedbyJay.com
— May 2023
Admitted to the NY Bar
— May 2022
Joined the law firm Wilson Sonsini in their NYC office. Achieved a life goal of living and working in New York (with enough income to enjoy it!)
— September 2021
Co-founded Bruins for Biden, amassing nearly 100 likeminded, activist students to work phone banks for CO, WI, and NC. Spent the ten days leading up to Election Day in Las Vegas monitoring four polling stations and cure canvassing over 100 Biden voters whose initial ballots were rejected for a formality.
— Oct/Nov 2020
Got my first dog, Shanti, at eight weeks old. He’s named after the main character in Shantaram by Gregory David Roberts.
— May 2020
Second trip to Elephant Nature Park in Chiang Mai, Thailand
— December 2019 - January 2020
Uber IPO
— May 2019
Began therapy
— September 2018
UCLA Law
— August 2018 - May 2021
Moved to Santa Monica
— August 2018
85 flights to 43 cities in 21 countries
— 2017
CRM for Uber LatAm. First time changing jobs to follow a great manager; first time managing people myself. Read more about it here.
— May 2017 - June 2018
Moved to Mexico City. Achieved a life goal of living and working abroad.
— May 2017
Followed John Mayer on the European leg of his Search for Everything tour to Stockholm, Oslo, Copenhagen, and London. I lived with more gratitude and joy around the time of this trip than I ever had before (or have since). Read more about it here.
— May 2017
First trip to Elephant Nature Park in Chiang Mai, Thailand
— March 2017
Hillary Clinton loses to Donald Trump
— November 2016
Flew solo to Tokyo to eat at Jiro Ono’s
— October 2016
CRM embed with Uber’s India Growth engineering team
— October 2015 - May 2017
Moved to SF. First time living without roommates.
— October 2015
Read Essentialism by Greg McKeown
— August 2015
First solo trip (from DC to San Juan, Puerto Rico)
— April 2015
Buddy Friedel, my grandfather, took his own life at a healthy 79 years old; so great was his fear of losing his independence and becoming a burden.
— May 2014
First paid job: operations and marketing for Uber Baltimore/Maryland. Didn’t know what stock options were until I read the offer letter.
— March 2014 - October 2015
Unable to get a job in government / think tanks / journalism / anything remotely related to my BA in International Relations. About to bounce March’s rent check.
— January - February 2014
Published for the first time: An Unsanctioned Iran Is Scary, Nukes or Not
— December 2013
Introduced to David Foster Wallace’s commencement address, This is Water. Now I listen to it once a quarter to try and reset my default social processing.
— October 2013
Moved to DC. Launched my first blog to self-publish foreign policy analysis.
— September 2013
Graduated from Penn
— May 2013
Performed onstage for the first time: Legally Blonde (The Musical). Watch my scenes here.
— November 2012
Directed the Quaker Classic, the country’s largest undergraduate mock trial competition
— November 2010
Founded and 4x’d the debate program at City Center Academy in Philadelphia
— 2009 - 2013
Graduated from West Springfield High School

Co-wrote, co-directed, and co-produced my first short film: A Fool’s Fate
— June 2009
Won the Virginia State Championship for Student Congress Debate
— April 2009
First real heartbreak
— December 2008
“Junior olympics” in Berlin. Quitting after high school marked the end of my first identity: gymnast from ages 2-18.
— March 2008
First trip to India as a politically aware young adult. My first time seeing abject, third world poverty.
— December 2006
Winter breaks in Verbier, Switzerland with my family, hosted by my grandfather “Bumpy” and his partner Becky
— 2001 - 2004